The end of May marked the beginning, of what I see, as the end of my pregnancy. I feel the end is near and Baby Zoe and I have 4-5 weeks left together in one body. We are definitely ready for this to be over and to meet each other.
The end of May has also been the greatest part of my pregnancy so far. I have been feeling very relaxed over the last few days and have been enjoying myself. I wish I could say that everything is perfect. It is not, as sleeping is a huge challenge. I seem to make an earthquake every time I turn over, which in turn wakes up the entire household. I’ve started the penguin march on a daily basis, but only when I’m tired and when I need to pee. However, with these little things I still feel great.
A couple of weeks ago, I was full of energy but not the good kind of energy. That energy was the kind energy that dictates everything you do. The kind that actually stops you from enjoying yourself. I was running all over the house cleaning, tidying and getting ready for the baby. I was running all over the city doing all kinds of things, picking things up and shopping unnecessarily. I still felt great during this time, however, I was not relaxed.
This past weekend was a completely new kind of energy. This energy was the kind where I wanted to leave the house and actually be with people and talk with people and enjoy my time. The weather was really great, not too hot, not too cold, just perfect for me. The outside world was calling me to come out from my winter hibernation.
I spent some time in Szekesfehervar, a city outside of Budapest. This was a well needed break from the toxicity of Budapest. Not just the air around me, but my life here had become toxic and I needed to get out. I was given the opportunity to leave for a couple of days and I grabbed it. I went and enjoyed beautiful gardens and parks. Ate food in the middle of a lake and had ice cream and cake. I slowed my life down, stopped and watched the world around me. It was beautiful.
I managed to have 2 nights of deep sleep. 2 nights where I did not wake up. Once my head hit the pillow I stayed that way until morning. I even managed a 7:30 am wake up time, it was pure bliss. I had some awesome dreams. Dreams where I met my baby for the first time, dreams of people I love and cherish, dreams where I woke up smiling.
I spoke to friends who listened to what I had to say. Friends who truly cared about what I was saying and friends who love me no matter what stupid things I say. I met friends for food, laughter and love. Just talking and sharing my crazy doubts and wildest ideas of my new life. I set myself free and let myself enjoy my life. The people, friends and family, who I saw and spoke with, enlightened me and brightened my life this weekend and opened my eyes to start enjoying this new chapter in my life.
It’s funny to think how many different emotions and feelings a person can go through in the space of a few weeks and months. Perhaps its normal, perhaps everyone goes through these kinds of stages, but during pregnancy you are more likely to track these things. You see these emotions more clearly during pregnancy as you count the weeks by. For me, I think I have experienced the entire set of emotions a person can ever feel. Some really bad, some super great and some just not worth remembering at all. I hope I can hold onto this feeling for a little while longer before the next set hits me, because I truly feel great. The end of May is now the beginning of June, which only means that Baby Zoe is nearly here.